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Dear LL,
I was invited to a large lesbian group sex session, about 5 couples or 10 girls, but honestly, something makes me nervous about it... Have you ever tried getting into bed with such large female group?
Funny, I always get nervous when more than three lesbians gather together to drink coffee. . . But really, I am not sure if you should be nervous. Maybe a gang-bang with 10 guys should make you nervous (if for nothing else than for the physical strain it can put on your body) but lesbians should be kind of fun and more gentle.
I think what might be making you nervous is the quantity of the girls involved. Ten is a lot, maybe too many for a first time lesbian experience with group sex. For that many girls, you might need a coordinator or mistress of ceremonies to keep everyone in line.
LESBO LAUNDERS TIP: Group sex with lots of people is a logistical nightmare!
Is the plan that the couples have sex with each other but in the presence of others or is the plan to have a full out orgy? Do you know the people involved? Will there be activities to bring you together, or is the expectation that you all will just start group fucking in one moment? Have the other girls done this before?
My suggestion is to start with a smaller group: another couple or two other couples is a good idea, it is more manageable and it will be easier to communicate amongst each other. If you have never had group sex before, you might be overwhelmed by 20 arms, 10 pussies and 10 tongues coming at you. (And god knows how many dildos and vibrators!)
Another option is to participate with the five couples, but not to be all together at the same time. Some couples can be in the living room, some in the bedroom, and hell, one or two in the kitchen. Many swingers' clubs work in this system, which allows people to easily choose with whom they want to play with. It also lets couples have sex in an erotic environment without actually having sex with other couples. And there is yet another way this lesbian orgy can take place: get the participants in the same room and have someone "instruct" the participants in what they should do, so that every couple is doing the same thing at the same time. This is a great way to break the ice. For example, she can say "now, everyone suck on their partner's right nipple". After about a half an hour, everyone will feel more comfortable and willing to experiment more with girls who are not their partners.
The important lesson to take from this is that not all group sex is created equal, and even though this is your first time having group sex, you should feel comfortable in making suggestions to the other girls. And if all else fails, tell your girlfriend that you want to go, but just "to watch" and let things happen naturally. Good luck! And take pictures and send them to me!
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