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Dear LL,
I have always wanted to experiment with another girl but I am quite shy, how should you recommend I approach this subject? Tempted, from AZ.-
Dear Tempted,
The big difference between gay guys and gay women is that, truth be told, gay men love fucking men. Period. Gay women, however, often look at fucking women as a political act. Translation: Lots of gay men would love to fuck a straight guy if he was hot, but many lesbian women are not interested in helping other women "experiment".
So here is your Lesbo Launders solution: fuck the lesbians! No, really, not literally! I mean, forget about them. They aren't going to be that willing to help you out. What you need is a crazy bi-sexual cutie pie who wants to show off her sexual prowess and teach you a thing or two.
You need to go to your local hipster bar—if you are shy, you probably don't go out that much, but if you do, go to a bar that you never go to-and use your powers of observation to find a girl who is checking out both the guys and the girls. She is your bi-sexual temptress, waiting for you to take her home. Now do something really classy and old school—send her over a drink, preferably something pink and girly. Have the waitress send it over. Either she will come over to you, or you stroll over to her. Now, because you already made a bold move, your shyness will come off as strong and silent. Don't think you have to say much—ask her questions, let her do the talking. Compliment her cool accessories and ask her opinion about music. Don't feel like you need to agree with everything she says, but ask her opinion on certain subjects while seductively gazing into her eyes, so she knows you want to do more than talk.
Casually touch her hand when she says something funny, and slyly suggest that you could continue talking somewhere more private. If the vibes are good, she will take you back to her place.
Now, don't start with "I've never done this before" because you will come off as lame, and not cool (which is what you want to be: like attracts like, cool attracts cool). Rather, say that normally you aren't attracted to women, but you couldn't resist her. Then kiss her passionately, and let your hands slowly caress her body. At one point she will take over and let her guide you into her realm of pleasure. Don't worry if you are doing it right, just pay attention to her and experiment: she will tell you if you are on the right track!
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