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Dear Lesbo Launders,
I enjoy kissing, cuddling, licking and eating my lesbian lover enormously. The other night she mentioned she wanted to experiment with a third person, a guy. I think I may like an all-girl threesome but I am not sure I am ready for adding a cock to the mix... Sapphic Suzy.
Dear Sapphic girl,
back up a minute for lust's sake! You sound like you have your back against a wall with no options because your lover is giving you an ultimatum: add a cock to the love nest or else! Now, if all she did was mention it the other night, well, maybe it is just something that she is thinking about, like trying tango or dying her hair pink, and nothing will come of it. It is just a fantasy, or a way of her figuring out what your sexual preferences and fantasies are. Let us not lose sight of the big, fat fact: she mentioned it once.
And here is where you need to do some investigating: is this just a fantasy or an obsession? If it is just a fantasy, tell her that a first threesome is heavy stuff for a new couple such as yourselves. Many do not survive the jealousy and a confusion of a three-way.
LESBO LAUNDERS CREDO: Group sex is best when it is 100% casual OR when the couple is VERY stable and long term.
But what happens if this lone mention becomes more constant, and instead of vague fantasies she counters with a detailed proposal? For starters, I'm going to guess that she isn't a lesbian lover, but a bi-sexual babe. Her need to include a man leads me to conclude that she is "missing" a masculine presence in the sack. Now, maybe she is one of those bi-babes who loves fucking men but prefers to shack-up with a girl, in which case you two will probably stay together. But if not, you are probably going to get left for the guy, or another man like him.
Another thing to be cautioned about: when your lover decides to put the plan in motion, it will be very hard to stop because I assure you, there is no red-blooded man out there who wouldn't give his right arm to be a part of a lesbian 3some. Hell, some would be content just to watch!
And that is another good question to ask your girl: does the idea of a cock turn her on or the idea of being watched? If she wants to be watched, try a fantasy out of my old-play book: with her express permission, videotape your lovemaking. This gives the sensation of being watched without actually involving a third person. And then don't forget to send us the tapes.
From your hesitation, I also sense that you are not bi-sexual, but rather a 100% carpet-munching tittie-groping lesbian. So, may I suggest the following alternatives to a threesome: You buy a strap-on. Slap in some porn on the DVD player (of threesomes) and ram your lover with your dildo as she watches it. She will get her fantasy fulfilled and you won't have to worry about being ready for cock or not.
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