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Dear Ms. Launders,
my girlfriend does not like that I look at lesbian porn, she is very feminist and says it exploits women. I would love to watch some with her, but she hates it when I watch it alone! Help! –Movie Fan
Dear Movie Fan,
I love watching lesbian porn! Hell, I write for a lesbian porn website, so I think it is really healthy to admit that you like porn and that it makes you feel good. Not everyone loves porn, but it is a healthy way to explore fantasies without exposing yourself to diseases or harming a relationship.
First, I am going to give you some simple advice that might end the whole problem: stop bothering your girlfriend about watching porn with you and don't let her know that you watch it so often. If it is a problem, why bring it up? If she asks tell the truth, but you don't need to give her the play by play of every moment that you two are apart (hey honey, today I cleaned the bathroom, eat a banana, and then masturbated while watching the hottest content on pink is beautiful, I especially loved this scene where the girl sticks this dildo in really deep and the other girl...).
Clean out the links in your computer. She knows you like porn, but she doesn't need to be reminded of it. Now, onto her view that porn isn't feminist or exploits women... This attitude is very retro, like saying that real lesbians don't wear lipstick. As someone who has had the pleasure of being on some porn sets, let me share with you a few surprising facts:
- The business is filled with women, not only as actors, but producers, directors, crew, etc. Many of the girls on the other end of the camera often tell me that it is actually far LESS sexist than a regular Hollywood film, in part because when you are filming sex, all sexual jokes and comments are kept to a minimum.
- The industry follows very strict guidelines regarding age and consent.
- There is porn for all tastes and all fantasies.
- Porn jobs that pay well and in which the actresses are well treated are common, and are less exploitative then low wage jobs such as waitressing or cleaning houses.
If you insist on her watching porn with you, start with a movie that actually isn't porn, but that has some hot lesbian scenes. Watch them together and then copy the action that is on the screen. After doing this a few times, she won't seem so turned off by the idea of watching porn together. And when you do, make sure she is involved in the selection process and that you stop at least once to tell her that she turns you on much more than the chicks on the screen.
Take it slow, take it easy and let her know that Lesbo Launders is as feminist as they come, and I love to cum with porn! -Lesbo Launders
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